If we are to be genuinely happy again, we must prepare our selves for the possibility of it all, and to accept that we deserve it.  It may seem like Intestinal fortitude is not always within us after such loss and sadness, but it still exists inside of us, It is my most important belief these days. The widowed are the bravest people in the world. I am awestruck at the stories.. When the end of the rainbow feels like it doesn’t exist anymore, we must find our ruby slippers, even if we can’t put them on our feet just yet.