Losing your past, present, and future all at the same time.
Creeping forward when the weight you carry seems to push you to the floor.
Feeling like your heart is stuck in a meat grinder.
Straining to hold your head above the crashing waves when you feel like you may drown.
Forgetting who you are. You can’t be who you were and you aren’t sure who you will become.
It is identity loss and an identity crisis.
Feeling weak and vulnerable.
Wondering if you will ever be happy again.
The moment you realize that severe emotional pain causes actual physical pain. You have real chest pain because of your broken heart.
Feeling like you don’t fit in a world you used to belong in.
Feeling like a perpetual Eyeore when you’d really much rather by a Tigger.
When everything around you triggers your pain.
When facing doing even the simplest things feels like the pain of putting your hand on a hot burner.
Trying to walk in quick sand.
Crying so much your face breaks out in a rash.
Trying to remember when your brain feels like it has holes in it.
Seeing the things you used to enjoy as meaningless and empty.
Carrying constant stress.
Hard morning reminders that your loss really happened.
Feeling lonely even when you are with others.
Trying to walk up a steep mountain in a thick fog.
Feeling like no one “gets it.”
A long journey to an unknown destination with no map.
Seeing everything through a smoke screen.
Feeling like everyone else sees you as different because of what has happened to you.
Needing to talk about your loved one over and over.
Choosing a positive attitude and people assuming you are happy again with your life, but you are far from happy.
Grief is real
And should be valued.
Don’t judge it.
Don’t try to control it.
Don’t lose patience with your grieving loved one.
They need your help now more than ever.
In Hope & Prayers,
From This Widow Mama
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For many widows facing financial challenges, the choice between keeping the lights on, putting food on the table, and buying presents can be heart-wrenching. When you add the responsibilities of solo parenting, the weight of grief, and the toll it takes emotionally and physically, the burden becomes even greater.
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For our widows/hope sisters in the community, please stay tuned as we’ll be sending out widow applications for sponsorship this holiday season very soon.
Let’s come together and make a difference in the lives of those who need it most.