. Do you believe that your late husband is communicating with you by sending you signs? My answer is YES! I have had butterflies land on bushes right beside me, even though there are no other ones in sight. At ...
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saint (seɪnt) n. 1. a person of exceptional holiness, formally recognized by the Christian Church esp. by canonization. 2. a person of great virtue or benevolence. “You are a saint”, I said to my dear friend who is watching dementia ...
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My fingers hurt tonight and there is grease under my nails. BUT, I replaced a headlight on Wanda the Honda today! I have done it twice before, but today, I just couldn't get the retaining clip to secure where it ...
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I work for a non-profit, helping those in poverty. One of the most important resources one can have to move out of poverty is to have relationships with those who can encourage and be an example in the journey. One ...
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Following my late husband’s death, for some reason, I was filled with an intense desire to become a totally honest person. It’s not that I had a problem with honesty before Ray died. Well … maybe a little problem. After ...
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Today is my deceased husband’s birthday; the third one that I have spent without his physical presence. As I  am wearing his sweatshirt, sipping tea from his favorite #1 Dad coffee cup that one of our daughters gave him on ...
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Note: This essay is VERY personal and is the result of much thought about posts I have seen from other widows and widowers. Some of us got to choose whether to be present when our spouse died, others did not ...
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